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How to make your spouse trust you.

In psychology trust is believing the person who you trust to do what you expect. It starts at the family and grows to others. According to the psychoanalyst Erik Erikson development of basic trust is the first state psychosocial development occurring, or failing, during the first two years of life. Success results in feelings of security, trust, and optimism, while failure leads towards an orientation of insecurity and mistrust.[2]

Trust is integral to the idea of social influence: it is easier to influence or persuade someone who is trusting. The notion of trust is increasingly adopted to predict acceptance of behaviors by others, institutions (e.g. government agencies) and objects such as machines. However, once again perception of honesty, competence and value similarity (slightly similar to benevolence) are essential. There are three different forms of trust. Trust is being vulnerable to someone even when they are trustworthy; Trustworthiness is the ability to trust, and trust propensity being able to rely on them Relationship and Risk taking. Once trust is lost, by obvious violation of one of these three determinants, it is very hard to regain. Thus there is clear asymmetry in the building versus destruction of trust. Hence being and acting trustworthy should be considered the only sure way to maintain a trust level.

Increasingly much research has been done on the notion of trust and its social implications:

Trust plays a vital role in relationship. It's like a foundation in which any sensible relationship is laid upon.
Many relationship has collapse as a result of distrust. Things fall apart and the center cannot hold as result of distrust.
I know that many relationship, even marriages are the brim of packing up now base on the same subject.

So what must you do to safe that person that loves you to stick to his or her promises to you

Be know for the truth at all time. Let your watch word be "what I say is what I will do "

never make him to see you as a liar. Just a little lie could create a crack on the wall that can introduces a lot of predators.

So never allow That little lie to let him slips away.

Do not nag him. Nagging is like you are reminding him of what he has forgotten. Perhaps you never trust him that's why you nag.

Let Him know that you care about him. Prove to him that you care

Never advise him to tell lie else he would take you to be one.

Never Hide your your mobile phone when you are with him. Receive all call confidently in his presence. Allow him to receive your call.


Never report his mum to him. Even when you are right.Treat his mum specially.

Never talk about you ex, let him be a forgotten issue. else he may think you're still seeing him

While you walk with him ...................

How to Have a lasting Joy

Joy is an emotion Trace to Happiness. It is a deeper form of Happiness;it is an emotion of happiness found deeper in the soul of man.
Happiness in the other hand, could be a respond to stimuli- an event that make us to be happy momentarily. While happiness is a temporary thing Joy is more permanent induced.
Many people Have Taken happiness to mean Joy.Though they sound synonymous but they are not the same.

You could be seen in a moment laughing and smile but a short while you are seen muddy.That could be as a result of an environmental influence. That is to say what some thing happen around you that make you to feel the way you do.

If you have been feeling like that you need to know that you need something that is more that Happiness.

How can you get a more lasting happiness- joy?

If you want to have Joy you will need to do the following.

Be a Joy to Other. You must be a source of Joy to othe; whatsoever you want to get try and give. As it is said respect is reciprocal,so whatsoever you give, you'll get

Respect Things around you. This is a very important. you must respect things around you. Remember that whatsoever you don't respect could be against you and cause you sorrow
How do I mean, If you have no respect for food and you over eat, though food is good but as a result of abuse it will surely troubles you.
Everything around us need to be respected.Our home, wife, children, automobile, friends, Family, nature e.t.c. The abuse of our environment has cause the whole global village a sleepless night.
The nature which God has given to man to make him happy as now be a thing of disaster because will never treat it with respect. multinational companies discharge their waste uncontrollably into the see, oil companies flare their gas without minding the effect it brings, now we have to battle the global warming.
Therefore if you want to be happy treat everything around you with respect.

Be satisfy with what you have.Any man that is not satisfy with what he has will be condemned by his own personal reasoning. Human wants are endless, you cannot have everything, be happy with what you have.